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Howling at the Moon by Susan Smith
posted: May 27, 2011

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Broad Ripple has lost an icon. Mary Weaver, 91, died May 18th, 2011. She owned and operated Weaver's Lawn and Garden in Broad Ripple for over 50 years and resided in the Warfleigh neighborhood. She was a friend of mine. Anyone who knew Mary would tell you she was a feisty old gal. Some of that feistiness came from hearing loss and the associated frustration of it. It never stopped her from working. She would be seen at the cash register running the show most days. In 2009 I wrote about Weaver's in my column. Here is an excerpt:

"When I think of Weaver's Garden Center I think of the wild (feral) cats that lived there (or perhaps still live there) in the natural environment of the White River.
In 1990 I quit, cold turkey, a burn-out eighty hour a week sales job that required corporate travel within a four state territory. Fifty percent of the time I was overnight. I decided to stop and smell the roses, literally. That early spring I found myself becoming an avid gardener shopping multiple times weekly at Weavers on B.R. Avenue. One day, in jest, I told Mary Weaver that I was there so much I should just work there. She looked up and asked me when I could start. I took her up on it and it was an interesting time. The place gets slammed in May. There were days that I called "hamburger in the pocket days". John Weaver (rest his soul) would go to McDonald's and bring back bags of burgers and we would slip them in our aprons and eat on the sly. There was no time to have a lunch break. Gardening was just beginning to be the big trend that it has become. I learned from the customers about the Master Gardener program taught by Dick Crumm who is now known as Dr. Dirt. I signed up and became a certified Master Gardener the following summer. Spring slipped into summer spilling into fall which drifted into winter. Each season at Weavers is enchanting with Easter lilies and pansies, summer annuals, mums and pumpkins, Christmas trees and poinsettias. It was the Christmas trees that drew my husband, Dennis into the Weaver family. He was asked if he could help sell trees one winter. It was hard, cold, heavy, and often wet work but he really got caught up in the spirit and came back many years. We both loved working with the customers. I guess we were destined to become retailers.
We both remember the cats. At the time I had never heard of "feral" cats but that is what they were. Mary Weaver would feed them daily and came to do so on the days they were closed during the winter season. There was always a cat at the register. That must have been a kitten that was tamed. Most were skittish and were seen from afar. In the summer I would take a watering wand to water the plants and as I would walk around the property I would see the cats. I worried that they were multiplying and taking over the place. At that time the only answer to control feral cats was to catch them and take them to the Humane Society where they would be euthanized. In the 90's IndyFeral was formed by a lady named Lisa Tudor. It has grown to be a big group with a big heart. I have learned that volunteers go out and feed feral colonies around the city. They practice TNR (trap, neuter, return). There are colony captains who assist. The cats are taken to a facility where vets volunteer to do the neutering. An ear gets clipped to show that they are neutered. They are returned to live out their days until the colony dies off from natural causes. . . . . . . . . "

My article continued about IndyFeral but today the focus is on Mary. When I worked with her I learned to harden up. I had never worked an outside job and it was HOT in the summer! The humidity was miserable. There was no air conditioning for relief. But people who work in the elements take it in stride. I, on the other hand, would sometimes go home on my lunch hour and jump in my pool. I would return with wet hair pulled in a pony tail. I was a wuss. She would let me take home the discards and I would nurse them to glory. I had the best yard ever that year.
When she turned 80 her family had a big birthday celebration. It was an honor to be invited to such a wonderfully attended affair. Now that family will carry on. It will no longer be a "Mom and Pop" business but a brother and sister operation continued by Tom Weaver and Pam Cossell. I can't say enough how strongly I feel about shopping locally and supporting family-run businesses. They are all unique with a story to tell and an appreciation of your patronage. Goodbye Mary.



Susan Smith is a life-long area resident and is the owner of City Dogs Grocery located at 52nd and College. Send your pet related questions/comments to susan@BroadRippleGazette.com




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