Converted from paper version of the Broad Ripple Gazette (v06n23)
Life's Ripples from Broad Ripple United Methodist Church by Rev. Timothy Rasmussen
posted: Nov. 13, 2009
We are entering that time of year that is full of traditions. Traditions play an important role in keeping us connected to our past, and the things we value. This time of year can be a very sad and stressful time for many people. Traditions help us cope by connecting us to events that are meaningful for us. Traditions also keep us connected to those who have gone before us. We connect to their legacy, and thereby proclaim to ourselves that we have not forgotten them, and recognize in a very real way that they are still with us.
As we age, we pass those traditions on to the younger ones in our families so that they too can stay connected to their past as they venture out into their futures. Traditions help younger people feel connected to something bigger than themselves. It helps them realize they belong and are part of something unique and special. Every generation usually adds something to an experience as a way of taking ownership, feeling connected, and ensuring that the generation following them feels part of it.
The list of traditions can be quite long. Some have traditions around how they fix the turkey or their "special dish" that is made only around the holidays. There are traditions on where to put the Christmas tree and how to decorate it (what goes on first, last, etc.)
As you get involved in your family's traditions this Holiday Season, take a moment to realize how far they have traveled through the generations. Then realize those traditions will continue long after we cease to be. It should bring a smile to your face to realize that there is a very real piece of you that will remain in each holiday tradition. Enjoy!!!!
Tim has been a United Methodist Pastor since 1973 and has been at Broad Ripple United Methodist since 2003. Email your questions/comments to
tim@BroadRippleGazette.com
tim@broadripplegazette.com